3. Physical, psychological or emotional abuse
It does not matter what sort of abuse it is. It does not matter how intense that abuse is. You must not let your partner be abusive. Abuse comes in many forms. It can be physical, when someone hurts and hits you. Psychological and emotional abuse is not less dangerous. It ruins your individuality and makes you an absolutely different person – weak and with low self-esteem.
4. How you spend your money is controlled
Control over your budget is not acceptable. You make your own money and you can spend your cash on whatever you want. Your partner does not have to be informed how much you make and whether you have a savings account. You may agree to share costs for the rent and food, but the rest of what you have belongs to you. You are an employed person so feel free to organize your budget without anyone’s help.