Micromanagement and overcontrol
Controlling guys look stupid. You should understand that no one is going to live the way you want them to live. People have their own opinion and thoughts and they have the right to do what they feel like doing without asking for your permission.
Passiveness
Be more active in various spheres of life. Have a few main interests and be curious about what’s happening around. Keep track of the latest news and events. Read books and watch good movies in order to be able to contribute to the conversation. Absorb the most important information and educate yourself on a daily basis. Passive guys are too boring to deal with. Find a couple of common topics that would engage both you and your woman. Discuss the things and share ideas.