The importance of compliments and flattery
Feeding each other with compliments is not a must at all. You can do without sweet lies and flattery. Be sincere and frank. If you dislike something, do not try to lie telling your partner that he or she is perfect. And never forget to tell how much you appreciate something if this is how you really feel.
Praising your partner and making them your priority
Your life consists of dozens of various aspects. There are quite a few parts of your life that are extremely important. Your partnership is just one of such parts, but never the whole of your life. You are responsible for different stuff so find the right balance between everything and do not prioritize your partner.