What are your dreams and goals?
You also have a dream that you’re pursuing. And you know how important it is for you to achieve it. The same applies to your date. He or she might be obsessed with some ideas, goals and missions. Talk about dreams and goals. Let the person show you how ambitious and imaginative he or she is. Do not laugh if the person’s dreams seem too unrealistic.
Would you tell me about the most important person in your life?
Never ignore how the person responds. It is especially important if this is your first date. The question you ask tells the person that you are interested in him or her and that people in their life matter to you too. The answer to this question is also important since you can then find out the real situation and what sort of relationships the person values most.