Let yourself and your partner be free to choose likes and hobbies. We are different and it is perfectly fine to be interested in something your partner is not fond of. Let your beloved one go to the gym if he or she is keen on games and sports. You, on the other hand, can enjoy your favorite activities that your partner is indifferent to. Life outside of your bond exists and you should not abandon it.
Conversations about your future living plans need special attention. Talk about your arrangements and ask yourself as well as your partner what each of you expects from your partnership. The sooner you find out how your partner wants it, the more effective your actions will be. Would you like to rent an apartment or have your own house?