We fall in love with someone and we tend to believe that this love will last forever. Nevertheless, life makes adjustments and we start looking at our partners from a different angle. We change. And our partners change, too.

After a few years of living together we may realize that we have become too different. What happens next is we fall out of love.
Monotonous days do not make your bond any stronger. When you do not love your partner, your routine seems even more boring and annoying than usual. You know what you can expect from your partner. There is little hope he will want to change. There is no spark and no magic that you used to feel when you first met him. It’s a very common issue that plenty of coupes face and experience.

Your dates feel dull and boring. You are not excited to be on a date with your partner. You know that it should be different, but there is not much you can do. You do not wish to put effort and make the date any more fun simply because the man who you are dating is not your soul mate. Maybe you are friends, but this is not enough for you to feel good.