Stop being picky and demanding
You are going to meet various people. The search process will involve lots of new experiences. Be more tolerant and understanding. If you have a picky nature, it will not let you focus on people who are good enough and are worth your time and attention.
Leave alone those who do not reply
Be prepared for various kinds of reaction from people whom you message. Not everyone is supposed to like you. You never know what others may need and why they use the dating site. Relax and enjoy your correspondence with members who reply. Do not concentrate on those who ignore you.