Don’t be desperate
Relationships should not be your obsession. Feel relaxed and learn to chill. Create your own world full of exciting moments. Do sports and take walks, attend exhibitions, visit galleries and museums. Find new hobbies that would keep you busy. If your life spins around relationships, it may turn men off.

Listening
Most people like to be listened to. We hope that the person we spend our time with can hear and understand us. We share our emotions and feelings as well as thought regarding various subjects. Being a good conversationalist includes more than speaking. You should also be a good listener. Listen to the guy and his ideas and then tell him what you think about it. Let your dialogue be calm and relaxed.