A man who is in love with you treats you nicely. He respects your opinion. He appreciates your presence in his life and tries hard to please you and build a strong bond.

On the other hand, bad partners usually do the following:

1. They prioritize destructive habits
A man who loves you will never put his addiction to alcohol or drugs before you. He will understand that it is destructive for you too since you will keep struggling and wasting your time trying to help him out. The longer you stay together, the worse this situation will be. You will feel more and more attached to the person who is dragging you down. Instead of helping him, you will ruin your own life.

2. They make you do stuff for him that you dislike doing
Selfish people think that they are the most important individuals around. They control others and do all possible to make people do for them without asking whether this makes them feel fine or not. If you do not feel comfortable doing something, simply do not do the stuff. You are nobody’s slave and this is not your job to please someone who doesn’t care about your feelings. If you are a nice and generous woman, stay alert since sometimes your partner may try and use or even abuse your kindness.