Once your relationship cracks, you can expect unpleasant surprises. Your partner might be too weak to struggle in order to save your marriage. Then you notice that your spouse is interested in someone else.

Whether you want to admit it or not, you are part of the problem. To prevent the issues, make sure you do not do the following five things:

1. Technology dominates your life. 

Technology should be put in its place. What we mean is that all those cell phones won’t let you have a normal face-to-face conversation with your beloved. Social networks like Snapchat, Twitter or Facebook can totally ruin your partnership. Do not even try to hide your chats and blogs – sooner or later your spouse will find everything out. If you are flirting with someone online, expect some serious trouble.

2. There is no intimacy in your conversations.

Make some difference between how you talk to your spouse and people who are not part of your marriage. Your partner should feel that he is loved. Pay attention to your voice tone. Control your emotions and express the best feelings you have for your beloved. Be nicer to your partner and remember that criticism, rudeness must be kept out of your relationship.