4. State your purpose
Whatever you say, do it without faltering. We understand how uncomfortable it may feel to come up to a group of males and try to talk just to one of them only. It may be intimidating indeed. Focus on the person you are truly interested in. Do not wink or smile at other men that surround the guy. Avoid sending the wrong signals; otherwise you may be misunderstood by the company of strangers. Approach the company and speak directly to the person you find attractive. Some certain reaction from his buddies is an inevitable thing so be prepared to hear any kind of comments, unpleasant ones included. If the man you are attracted to sounds friendly and does not say anything rude, then go ahead and keep on talking to him. Ignore the bad remarks coming from others.